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Have you just gone thru a break up?
Or know a friend who is having a hard time going thru a breakup?
Did you break up even months or even years ago? And are still having a tough time releasing?
Still dealing with scraps with the person you're in love with, and they are not giving you much back?
This deck is for you!
Originally this was my story which sparked my idea for this Break-Up Deck, however, I have now seen more men getting broken up with than women since i released this deck and feel they need help as well. I also had an overwhelming amount of people ask if I would ever made a unisex deck... So here it is! EDITION 2!
3 new cards are added into this deck!
I had just been broken up with, and I was sitting in my car crying my eyes out in a parking lot. All of a sudden this song I have heard my entire life, suddenly made sense to me. You know it! "I will survive" from Gloria Gaynor!
I STOPPED CRYING, and began to listen to her lyrics more closely.
The one lyric that says "AS LONG AS I KNOW HOW TO LOVE I KNOW I'LL STAY ALIVE, I've got all my life to live and I've got all my love to give.”
And another line stood out “I'm saving all my love for someone who's loving me".
I started laughing out loud in the car! Why would we even want to give all our love away without being loved back? Why did I not even think of this thought before?
This idea in itself, was a major thought was fuel for me to build my strength again. We should be saving it for the right person, not wasting out energy away on the wrong person, someone who did not see us for our true selves.
All women go thru this at one point or another, we all emotionally hurt the same way, and we all go through break up's the same way! It is not to be ashamed of or feel bad for.
How can we feel better, and get the strength we need to move on? How we can release? How we can stop thinking negative cyclical thought about not being good enough? Those thoughts just get you nowhere! They will only hurt you. Why would you want to hurt yourself like this? It is time for women in the dating world to realize how wonderful we are and to learn to release and pay attention to ourselves and SELF-LOVE!
That same night, after I had been dumped! I had a dream of a mermaid who came to me. She said to me to get thru to the person who had just dumped me” she said “FOLLOW THE WATER” and swam away. I thought that meant when she said to get thru to this person, that she would show me a way back to him, but it turned out she was leading me to myself, and it was my own journey to SELF LOVE.
I did not know what that meant at the time, but I listened to her, it lead me to the West Coast of Ireland off the Cliffs of Moher to be exact, which I had a past life feeling at, and to the Caribbean Sea off of Belize to an island called Caye Caulker. The whole journey took about a year. Little did I know at that time, when I had begun following the water I had begun my journey to Self Love. That journey actually lead me straight back to myself, but a better version of me.
ABOUT THE CARDS: I am very excited to bring you the first oracle deck I have ever created. It has been on my mind for at least the last 3 break-up, and it is everything I had to teach myself to build myself back up to find a loving relationship. My intention for this deck is to help women deal with one of the worst experiences in life. A BREAK-UP! It is also for women who have trouble disconnecting and releasing someone, even if it has been months or years. This deck will encourage release, self-love, and redirection of love <3 I hope you all enjoy it.
About the Creators: Writer: Melissa V Martinez, is an astrologer, spiritual, and ritual manifesting teacher and healer.
Co-Writers: Anna Louise Savage, Sue Stephens, Sabine Schoof & Theresa Giannette, all met Melissa in Kathryn Alice’s Manifesting Group back in early 2016. They stayed friends for years and decided to all pull together and contribute help that they all had learned, in order to help other women.
Artist: Rocio Villalobos is an amazing artist, she travels the world and teaches young disabled children to learn to create to help them deal with their problems in life. She truly gives them inspiration and hope in the world.
Graphic Artist: Ishmael Perez is not only a graphic artist, he is a spiritual teacher, as well as an herbal alchemist.
Special Thanks to all that have helped contribute to this creation <3